Every time I go to the barbershop I hear men talking about how their baby mommas are running them raged. Lets run down the facts that would piss you off if you had to pay child support.
Top 5 reasons men hate paying child support.
1. They don’t see where the money goes.
2. ‘She only doing it to get me back.’
3. ‘She don’t let me see the child when I want.’
4. They can’t afford to live, let alone pay child support.
5. 'She tricked me. She said she was suppose on birth control.'
Lets be honest. Men who have to pay child support hate to pay it. They are always going in and out of court. The judge keeps increasing their support payments. While I was sitting in the barber’s chair one Saturday, I became a little frustrated myself after hearing the epic tales of the BABY MOMMA. I feel for these guys. They told me how every time they think they are getting ahead the baby momma comes to trying to pull him down by his pockets. The whole system is against these good men. They go to court and they judge ain’t telling her to go get another job. I bet you they tell him to get one. He is not allowed by her or the system to have any type of say so in any decisions. She gets all the power. And after all that, the system is not done screwing the baby daddy. The baby momma and/or the system wants to put him in jail for being late and/or not paying child support. Let them not find the baby daddy they then want to put his picture on a billboard like he some criminal.
That ain’t right. These men did nothing but share their affections and excitement with these cold heart humans we call females. All they want to do is to keep the black man down. The crazy thing about this is women are letting them (the system) use them to hurt the baby daddy. This is worst than black on black crime. Then the President has the audacity to talk down to these men as if it is their fault he does look more responsible. He should know better. Barack Obama Sr. had it right. Love the ‘Motherland’, but don’t have babies with sista‘s from there. That way she won’t be a mother or a mutha…well you get the drift.
(see Child Support (Part 2): How to avoid paying child support
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Now you can't go against the whole child support system because of a certain group of women. That's unfair to the mothers who are using the money correctly - for the child or children. That's unfair to the mothers who aren't out there to get the fathers. And of all places, you're at the barber shop where you only hear one side of the story. While there are some women who do fit into the realm of your top five reasons, there are many that do not. You would be highly upset, if you were unjustly grouped into a similar top five due to your race and gender. Oh wait...it does happen. How do you feel when people talk about the no-good black man? How do you feel when they say all the straight black man in their twenties are either in jail, on drugs or dead? If we as a people want to get ahead in this world, we have to stop making such broad statements like this. It starts with you and me. Take the first and free yourself...
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